There comes a moment in every woman’s life when she looks in the mirror and realizes…
she doesn’t recognize the girl staring back at her.
Not because she’s aged—because she’s evolved.
Because she’s spent so long pouring into everyone else, she forgot what it felt like to pour into herself.
Maybe you’ve been a mother, a wife, a caretaker, a fixer, a “hold it all together-er.”
Maybe you’ve been surviving instead of living.
Maybe you’ve lost pieces of yourself trying to be everything to everyone else.
Trixie sees you. Because Trixie is you.
🪞Learning to Love the Woman in the Mirror
Loving yourself isn’t about bubble baths and affirmation sticky notes (though I love a good post-it pep talk). It’s about choosing yourself.
Again. And again. And again.
It’s about saying:
“I matter.”
“I deserve softness and joy.”
“I am allowed to take up space.”
Self-love is a daily decision—some days it’s loud and fierce. Other days, it’s just getting out of bed and brushing your teeth when your heart is heavy.
And that’s still love.
💫 Finding Your Identity Again
You are not your job.
You are not your relationship status.
You are not your weight, your bank account, or your past.
You are a whole universe of potential and personality and power.
And if you’ve forgotten what lights you up? That’s okay.
Start small.
✨ Try something new.
✨ Wear what makes you feel alive, not just “appropriate.”
✨ Go places alone. Laugh loudly. Dance badly. Write something. Sing terribly. Take up space.
You don’t have to “find yourself” out there.
You build yourself right here.
💋 And Let’s Be Honest… It’s Not Always Pretty
Some days you’ll feel unstoppable. Other days, you’ll cry in your car over a sad playlist and a broken nail.
Both are valid.
Healing is not a straight line. Confidence isn’t permanent. Growth is messy. But you’re still magic, even when you feel a little undone.
🌷Final Thoughts from Trixie:
To the woman in the process of becoming—
You don’t have to be perfect. You don’t even have to be ready.
You just have to be willing to start.
Start showing up for yourself.
Start speaking kinder to yourself.
Start dressing like the main character—even if you’re just going to Walgreens.
You're not lost. You're under construction.
And baby… the finished version?
She’s going to blow your mind.
With sparkle & self-worth,
Trixie 💋
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