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✨ The Hardest Part Is Just Starting

✨ The Hardest Part Is Just Starting

Because Tenacity Is My Middle Name (Well… Sorta)

Let’s talk about that little monster that lives in our minds rent-free. Its name? Indecision.
It whispers things like:
“Now’s not the right time.”
“What if you fail?”
“Maybe you’re not ready.”
And before you know it, you’ve talked yourself out of the very thing your soul is begging for.

But here’s the gospel truth wrapped in glitter and grace:
The hardest part isn’t doing the thing. It’s deciding to do the thing.

That’s not just Trixie wisdom — that’s Amelia Freakin’ Earhart, the queen of flight and fearlessness, dropping gems from the cockpit.

> “The most difficult thing is the decision to act; the rest is merely tenacity.”



Whew. Let that one land.

Once you’ve made the decision?
You’ve already won half the battle.
The rest?
It’s just showing up. Sweating it out. Getting back up. Fixing your crown.
Falling apart. Getting up again.
Repeat.

Tenacity doesn’t require a cape. It requires commitment.
To yourself.
To the call.
To the why that keeps you up at night and pulls you out of bed in the morning.

So whether it’s starting a blog, cutting ties with chaos, going back to school at 49 (hi, it me), or finally believing you’re worthy of love — decide.

Just decide.

And once you do?
Channel your inner Trixie, swipe on some bold lipstick (or metaphorical war paint), and show up like your future depends on it.

Because it does.

💭 Trixie’s Sparkle Tip:

You don’t need a perfect plan.
You need a brave first step.
The rest is just stubborn glitter.

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