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🌸 Seeing With Her Heart: A Love Letter to the Too-Much Women

🌸 Seeing With Her Heart: A Love Letter to the Too-Much Women

They said she was too much.

Too sensitive.
Too emotional.
Too forgiving.
Too passionate.
Too intense.
Too invested in things that didn’t always love her back.

But here’s the real tea:
She was never too much.
She was just tuned into a frequency the world forgot how to hear.

That quote by Jessica Michelle?
“And while she never felt quite normal, she was nowhere near crazy. She just loved too much. Choosing to see the world through her heart, instead of her eyes.”
Yeah—Trixie felt that one in her soul. That’s not poetry, baby. That’s a diagnosis for the beautiful hearts who refuse to go numb.

The Curse and the Calling of Loving Too Much

Loving too much isn’t a flaw. It’s not a red flag. It’s not something you need to water down so you can fit into someone else’s version of "manageable."

Trixie tried that. Shrinking. Toning it down. Making herself easier to hold.

You know what happened?
She disappeared.

And so one day, she said:
“If my love is too big for some people, they can get smaller plates or step out of the buffet line.”

Because loving too much isn’t the problem.
Loving the wrong ones too long is.

Not Crazy. Just Connected.

When you lead with your heart, the world labels you dramatic.
When you cry over things that don’t affect others, they call you unstable.
When you believe in second chances, they call you foolish.
But baby, what they don’t see—
Is that your heart was never broken…
It was broken open.

And that kind of brokenness lets more light in.

Eyes See Facts. Hearts See Souls.

Seeing with your eyes shows you what is.
Seeing with your heart? That reveals what could be.

The people you give grace to?
The strangers you smile at?
The pain you feel that isn't even yours?

That’s not weakness. That’s divine empathy.

You're not crazy for feeling everything. You're chosen for carrying it.


A Love Note to the Too-Much Woman

Dear You,

Stop apologizing for the size of your heart.
Stop shrinking your spirit so others can stay comfortable.
And please—don’t ever believe that loving deeply is a flaw.
This world needs the ones who love too much.

So love boldly. Feel deeply. Cry freely.
Just be sure to love yourself with the same wild devotion.

Signed,
The woman who used to beg to be less
But finally became more.

✨ Trixie’s Takeaway Trix:

If they call you “too much,” tell them they’re free to scroll past.

Feeling everything isn’t crazy. It’s sacred.

Loving too much isn’t a weakness—it’s your superpower.

Don’t forget: you can be kind and have boundaries.

💖 Bible Verse:

"Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." —
 1 Peter 4:8

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